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Tuesday, March 26, 2013

Livin’ la vida loca


Written: Friday, March 15th 2013 
(This entry got a bit long!)

It’s been a crazy week! It’s one of those weeks where more than once I’ve found myself saying, “Yep, this is Finca life…”
            Although if it weren’t a little crazy I wouldn’t have the time right now to be writing this thanks to a “rain day” school was canceled. That’s a whole other story which I’ll get to.

            I’ll take you back to just last Friday. The teachers (both our local Honduran teachers and the missionary teachers) had just gotten back to The Farm after a retreat and a local natural hot spring. It is a very tranquil place that used to be a busy resort, but after Hurricane Mitch hit the area in 1998 the Canadian or American owners haven’t done much for upkeep. When we got back I had just a few hours to make the deadline for the Farm’s newsletter. Which by the way all of you who have donated (except anonymously) will be receiving your newsletter in the mail or email around Easter. Anyways, I had just come back along the beach from the resort where I’d been using the internet to email the articles and photos to our director stateside. I made it back a few minutes late for the start of Stations of the Cross with the intent of taking photos of the stations to also email them to Andrea. Amid the craziness I am just now realizing a week later that I don’t know whether I ever actually did send those final photos.
After stations it was time for an arts and crafts hour with the youngest boys or at least those that had been behaving relatively well. With a bit of cardboard from a care package, egg cartons, scissors and paint the boys made mini volcanoes. This then turned into a mini lesson on volcanoes. It is really inspiring to me how much those boys crave knowledge. 10 year old Brayan wants to be a meteorologist, but after our art session wants to be a volcanologist too.
I got back to our house a few minutes late for dinner during which on Friday’s we’ve decided to read the upcoming Sunday’s readings in Spanish and English and share any thoughts on it or just reflect. I felt bad being late, but that is life here.
 After dinner we (the missionaries) went to sing “Happy Birthday” to Jose Isabel who just turned 14.  It is tradition for us to make a card and sing to each of the kids along with any of their siblings. At the end of each month we have a big celebration for all the birthdays of the month. That reminds me it’s already have way through March and I need to start thinking of this month’s party.
From singing it was on to a meeting. It was finally my chance to sit down and chat with Julie a wonderful lady from the states who visited us for a week to do a number of different retreats. We talked until about 9:30 just sharing stories about how we each got connected with The Farm and other stories of our travels over the years.
When I got back I ran into Laura (one of our missionary nurses) as she was just sitting down to eat her now cold dinner which we saved. I had noticed she wasn’t around during Stations of the Cross but only because one of the girls had a really bad cough. I didn’t think much of it, but when I realized she hadn’t been around for dinner either I asked what happened. It turned out she’d been at the hospital in town with one of our 8 year old girls. I had just been at her house earlier that afternoon taking pictures for the newsletter and she was napping. No one seemed to know what happened other than that she was unconscious for about 10 minutes then said she had a headache and was dizzy. I’m told she never hit her head so no one really knew why she was sick.
After spending 5 hours in the hospital with no answers Laura decided it was best to bring her back to The Farm for the night. Laura stayed with her at St. Valentine (the spare house where a missionary family would typically live) for the night so she could monitor her. Saturday morning Erin Marina got a call on the clinical team phone which is left on for emergencies. “Hola…. Hola…Hola,” came a small child’s voice from the other end. Somehow while Laura was still sleeping our little girl got her hands on the phone and must have just dialed the last number that had been called. Thankfully she had only called one of the other missionaries. It was a good sign that whatever happened she was back to being a normal mischievous and curious 8 year old.
That night it was the missionaries’ turn to hang-out at the houses while the house parents took a couple hours off to watch a movie or just hang-out elsewhere and take a break. I decided I would cover House 1 (the littlest girls) since they are my designated “special friends”. Before heading over I checked in with Laura to see if there was anything I should keep an eye out for. I was told that our “8 year old prank caller” had been doing well all day running around and acting normal, but if she said she was dizzy or had a headache to let Laura know.
As soon as I walked into House 1 all of the girls bowled me over anxiously grabbing for the puzzles, cards and coloring books I’d brought. A few took to coloring and puzzles while I played Uno with a few others. After about a half hour later the youngest girl who’d had the dizzy spells sat down on her mattress next to me saying she was dizzy and her head hurt. I told her to lie down and rest for a minute and one of the other girls brought her some water. Unfortunately, her headache got worse and she started burning up. I sent the oldest girl in the house next door for help and they sent someone for Laura. It took all her little might to sit up and sip more water. I’d ask how many fingers I was holding up and although she was no longer responding verbally she’d show me on her fingers. I felt her pulse in her wrist which was pounding. All I could do was to keep her comfortable on my lap and continually make sure she didn’t slip from consciousness. Thankfully, she never lapsed into an unconscious state.
The rest of the girls seemed completely unfazed by their friend’s sudden dizzy spell which was not making the situation any better as they all continued to run around and shout. That is all the girls but one who sat at her feet occasionally rubbing her friend’s shins to show her compassion. That same little girl told later that night, “Yo llore para ella. Estaba sentando aqui en el porche y gota cayo de mi ojo.” (I cried for her. I was sitting here on the porch and one drop fell from my eye.) It almost made me cry to see how much those girls really do love each other. Although they may not be biological sisters they may be even closer to one another than siblings.
Laura got over to the house shortly after I sent for help and was able to take over while I ran all over The Farm to find one of the house dads who could drive them to the hospital. By the time we got her and Laura loaded into the car our little girl was more with it. She was still burning up, but was able to keep herself sitting upright and was again looking around.
The next 2 days were spent at the hospital in town. Emily (her social worker) and Laura (her nurse) took turns staying with her while waiting for a doctor to actually show up to work. I have not personally been to the hospital in town, but I am told that it is just a large room filled with rows of beds. We got a few requests from Laura of things to bring with when we came into town for Mass in the morning. It was a reality check when Laura asked us to bring a roll of toilet paper and hand sanitizer in case they were stuck there any longer. I knew the hospital was under staffed and only government funded, but seriously……. They didn’t have toilet paper! We got a backpack put together including a coloring book and markers for them and in the morning headed out for our next adventure.
            We (the missionaries) decided to walk into town along the beach since we were short on drivers to take people to Mass. It was a really beautiful walk and great exercise first thing in the morning. I had never walked further along the beach than the resorts so this was a great chance to see the area we call home. We passed by a few small jellyfish washed up on shore, a beautiful crab that looked like a 2 year old had taken finger paints of every color to it, and a handful of fishermen in their small canoes casting their nets for the day.
That walk was not only a good chance to pray and think, but was also a good reality check of how blessed we are at The Farm to have vehicles that can make the trip to town in 20-30 minutes verses the hour and 15 minutes walk. We sent a couple people to check in on our pair camped out at the hospital. Our little girl was doing just fine and ready to go home, but since it was Sunday the doctor would not be to work until 7:00 that night. Leaving without answers was not ideal since this was her second dizzy spell in as many days. Eventually a doctor showed up, but I don’t really know if that provided any answers. Since that incident she is doing much better.
Monday we welcomed a missionary group from Franciscan University. Their group consisted of 4 separate missions across the rural Trujillo area. With each group was a priest and their main mission was not service but bringing the sacraments (Baptisms and Mass) to those who have little access to them.
Their “coastal team” went out to the neighborhoods (Guadalupe, Betulia and others) along the coast. If you look at a map of Honduras (with the regions labeled) find Trujillo which is in the department Colon (equivalent to a large county or small state) then look to the East (the right) along the coast and that is where this group went. They literally went to the end of the road. Betulia is on the edge of the department “Gracias A Dios” which is the Honduran jungle. I’ve heard from other missionaries that beyond Betulia the only way to get around is by boat.
I’m told the wilderness also makes it a prime spot for drug trafficking. I’d spoken with a guy working with an American military group in our area. He said their mission is to build infrastructure, relationships, security and education all in hopes of driving drug traffickers into a smaller area where they can then “flush them out”. However, I digress.
The Franciscan group also sent a handful of missionaries up to the high mountain communities. I give them all a lot of praise because other than what they had in their packs that group along with the coastal team were dependent on the hospitality of those around them. Another group visited communities lower in the mountains; a different one each day before returning to the resort next door to us.
The last group was here at the Finca. The four of them helped our maintenance men put a new coat of primer in all the bedrooms for the kids and house parents. Each morning I’d meet them at our gate and get them situated for the day by translating what they’d be doing. After that though the missionaries and our maintenance crew were on their own to try and communicate.
Monday, Tuesday and Wednesday of that week went by in the typical blur from 5:40 a.m. to after 9:00 each night plus the added busyness the volunteers. Monday after getting them orientated I headed off to school at 9:30 to collect, correct and write the new assignments into the notebooks of my 16 1st graders and 11 2nd graders. My English classes are then from 11:25-12:05 and 12:05-12:45 which is not an ideal time for squirmy little kids. It’s the end of the school day and usually the hottest time of day. Somehow we make it through, and the 40 minutes is never actually enough time to do what’s needed.
After school every Monday is the teachers meeting. This is typically a half hour of wasted time at least for me so as soon as I can I try to sneak home.
Right from the meeting it’s back home for lunch and then to survive I snuck in an hour and a half nap. Yeah, I know most of you reading this would die to take a nap. I don’t claim that my work is any more exhausting than yours, but I think we can all agree the rare nap is needed to survive.
At 4:00 it was off to rally the Franciscan volunteers and head over to House 1 to take the girls to arts and crafts. We spent the first half hour with the girls who were “on green” (a.k.a. behaving well) to the playground. Then we went back to the house to get the last little girl who was on yellow since arts and crafts is a yellow level activity.
The kids each picked a volunteer to work with and decorated their new t-shirts. Each of the houses has matching shirts by color for the monthly Finca Olympic competition. Each of the girls put “Casa 1” and their name on the back of their lavender shirt plus whatever other crazy design they wanted. Most of their designs just consisted of splatter or finger painting with as many colors as they could.
That took us right up to dinner time. The Franciscan students left for Campamento (the resort next door) and I took the girls back home. At 7:00 that night we (the entire Finca) had a Spanglish Mass said by one of the priests with the Franciscan group. After Mass there was Holy Hour for the missionaries.
I didn’t stay though because as soon as Mass ended I turned around to see one of our house moms with her 6 year old daughter sick in her arms. The little girl is one of my 1st graders and one of the sweetest well-rounded kids I’ve ever met. She had the same symptoms as my special friend in House 1 had just a few days before. The common thread seemed to be that both their houses had just been painted with new primer. Whether that is the common thread we still don’t know. I was equally worried for her since she also has asthma.
I told her mom that we should head over to the clinic since Laura and Ashley were over their already with the other little girl who unfortunately again had a dizzy spell during Mass. Thankfully, she was doing relatively well compared to the other night. Her house mom took her back home after they checked her out.
We got to the clinic but neither Ashley nor Laura was there. I had them sit on a bench outside and I went in search. I ran into Laura halfway back to the house on her way back to the clinic. She’d been searching for Gatorade for our little girl in House 1. We switched off. I got the Gatorade over to House 1 and she got a nebulizer treatment going for the other little girl. By the time everyone was back home and our little girls were sleeping I was very relieved to have taken that hour and a half nap. After a 16+ hour day it would be a short night.
Tuesday… I wake to the cockle-doodle-doo of a dozen or so roosters. There are just the earliest glimpses of blue light coming in as I glance at my watch. 5:15 a.m. … I’ve got two options I think to myself: Try to go back to sleep for 25 minutes or take that shower that I opted out of yesterday. Somehow, I get myself over to the shower. I turn the knob and despite dreading the cold water find myself saying a quick prayer that enough water actually comes out to shower. It doesn’t take long to wake up after being doused in 40 some degree mountain stream water.
Thinking back now to that Tuesday I think things passed by relatively normal. Morning Prayer at 6:00. Breakfast at 6:30. Meet the Franciscan volunteers at 7:30. Head to school at 9:30 until 1:00. Each Tuesday and Thursday I run the library hour from 2:30-3:30 for the school kids who need homework help. I’m not sure what happened between then and dinner, but somehow it was 6:00 and I had not accomplished all I’d hoped too.
During dinner (every other Tuesday) we have a community business meeting. The first Tuesday is with all the missionaries and at least one mom, dad or aunt from each of the houses given that there is still someone there to watch the kids. The house parents are usually there till 6:45 and then head off to rosary at 7:00. Our portion of the meeting usually lasts another hour or so. We then end the night with optional Holy Hour and before you know it it’s after 9:00 and all you want to do is sleep. Once again your lesson plans still aren’t done, your department’s budget hasn’t been looked at but the deadline is still encroaching, your clothes will be on the line for yet another day (hopefully it doesn’t rain over night), the birthday party isn’t planned and you still haven’t confirmed what time the airplane is flying in tomorrow.
That all really makes me think how well rounded my resume is now. I am a teacher, a catechist, a party planner, a housekeeper, a department head (granted I am my department), an event planner and an emergency management specialist to list a few things. 
Wednesday was much of the same, but with more excitement in the afternoon. We found out our new Pope is from Latin America and we got to watch a small airplane land. The details of Wednesday are in a separate blog (keep scrolling down to the next entry) entitled, “The Pope and a plane”.

Now to the day which led to my chance to start writing this blog. (Which by the way I started a week and a half ago.) Thursday, March 14th 2013 is quite possibly a day for the record books at The Finca. It started out pretty typical, but a little rainy. No one thought much of it. The Franciscan volunteers still showed up to do their last day of painting. I was looking forward to the last day of English classes for the week.
By the time I headed off for school at 9:30 it was rainy hard enough that even running from one building to the next everything got pretty wet. After about a half hour I went into the office to ask the school’s director (whose been here since the Farm started) who was driving the teachers and some of the kids back to Trujillo after school. I didn’t find her, but I did find Alison (missionary/kindergarten teacher). She told me Ysmary the Finca’s director probably was. I was wondering because I know some of our kids who walk to school have to cross a couple planchas (they’re like bridges but the river goes over instead of under), and I wanted to know if they could be driven across since the river was probably a bit stronger from the rain. I was told that the school’s director usually monitors the river and if need be ends school early. However, no one seemed to know where the school’s director was.
I was not quiet satisfied and wanted to know if it’d be safe for my little first graders to walk home. I asked our security guard if he knew if the river was rising. He said it was fine so I trusted him and went on with preparing stuff for class. The rain kept coming down. Sometimes in torrents other times just a steady shower. I made the mad dash to the 2nd grade classroom without getting too soaked and then onto 1st grade. The pounding rain on the tin roof made teaching even more difficult plus the kids were even more antsy than normal since recess had been cancelled.
The final bell rang and there was no keeping me there longer than I had to be. I was soaked from the waist down, tired of yelling in class and ready to be done with the week. I got back to the house for lunch in record time and had just changed into warmer drier clothes when Kevin Kuehl (missionary and school sub-director) came into the house saying the teachers and all the kids who have to cross the rivers were still at the school. The rivers had risen too high to be safely crossed by car let alone on foot. The Finca was now a refugee camp!
First things first. They were all going to need lunch. Alison headed straight for the stove and started a huge batch of gallo pinto (rice and beans). I went around to a few houses to let them know what was going on and that our “refugees” may be eating dinner with them. I got to House 5 and the house mom there had already made an oatmeal drink to send over as a snack. One of the House 5 boys and I carried over the giant pot, bowls and cups.
On the way Kevin Kuehl said we should probably start thinking of a plan for the night because likely no one would be able to leave before dark. I got to the school and started a head count. We had all 9 of our Honduran teachers and about 2 dozen kids. Everyone seemed pretty content watching a movie.
Once I had a list of all the kids and twice checked it was time to figure out how we could keep relatives together for dinner. This was more complicated than I first thought. I quickly found out that not only are there many sibling pairs in our school but many are aunts or uncles to other students as well. Some of the teachers have kids in the school as well. For the few who had no relatives I had to try to at least keep them in a group with their teacher. Once we had the groups completed it was time to head back into the still pouring rain and let the houses know how many more people they’d have to cook for.
I finally stopped back into our house only to find out the number of “refugees” was more than we thought. In our living room/kitchen were the 4 Franciscan missionaries that’d been painting (which by the way they had to stop since too much moisture was seeping in along the walls) and 2 of their other teams. Among the new missionaries in our house was one gal who’d picked up some sort intestinal trouble. We got her situated in the spare bedroom with a couple thin mattresses, a blanket, sweatshirt and plenty of Gatorade.
Another guy in their group was seated with his foot propped up and it looked pretty swollen. It turns out that when their group (the coastal team) was coming back they had to take a boat. They’d all gotten out of the boat, but just as he was halfway out a large wave crashed the boat over his foot. Ashley examined it and said it didn’t appear to be broken. For awhile it seemed that all 10 or so of them would be stuck as well since they too had to cross a river to get back to the resort. However, the deacon in charge of their mission was able to help them all cross the river along the beach.
 There were also 11 patients (kids and adults) still in the clinic waiting to see the bone and muscle specialist who was visiting from the states for the week. Most of those patients live hours away by bus and walking. So while all the students and teachers were eating with the houses the patients all came over to our place for dinner.
As the sun set and the torrents of rain continued we had to get places set up for everyone to sleep while keeping in mind that many of these people (especially the patients) are complete strangers and we were dealing with kids some as young as 2 years old. Thankfully, we had a couple dozen extra “colchones” (thin mattresses) in storage since each of the kids received a donation of real mattresses earlier this year. We got the colchones delivered over to the library for the men and boys and the middle school for the women and girls. Unfortunately even after scrounging through our stash of extra sheets and blankets there was not enough. People were lucky to receive either a fitted sheet, flat sheet or a blanket. It wasn’t exactly a warm night either especially when you’re already wet.
To my relief most of the kids were still reveling in the “slumber party” and not worried that they were separated from their families. It was harder on the teachers though who realized this storm could last for days. From our storehouse we were able to put together emergency kits for everyone. They included toilet paper, a bar of soap, candles and matches. Amazingly throughout all of this the power never went out. This is almost unheard of since the power regularly and with no warning goes out.
As for the patients we put the four older women in the guest house, the men in the house usually used by a missionary family, and a grandpa and his three grandchildren in the office. The visiting doctor moved from the guest house and spent the night with us.
It should be noted that all this went down while the number of missionaries at the Finca was just seven. Usually we are a community of 13 (plus 2 in Ceiba), but Harrison and Haydee were on vacation back home in the U.S. and Nicaragua respectively, Emily and Sara were in Belize visiting friends of Emily, Erin Marina was in Ceiba covering for Sara, Laura was in Ceiba taking our little girl from House 1 to a specialist and Erin Lucia was trapped in town (on the other side of the rivers) at a hotel with her parents and grandparents who were visiting.
When everyone was nestled all snug in their beds (well… not exactly) the 7 missionaries holding down the fort finally sat down together and figure out how we’d deal with housing, feeding and keeping track of around 4 dozen people all while keeping our own kids safe for possibly the next 72 hours until the storm passed. We re-divided up cooking duties, wrote down rules, made plans for how to keep the school kids separate from our kids and keep everyone entertained indoors. Sometime around mid-night my head finally hit the pillow.
My watch then beeped about 5 or 6 hours later telling me it was time to get up and start cooking breakfast for the 7 of us plus the 11 patients. It wasn’t until I stepped into the courtyard that I realized the sound of rain on the tin roof had stopped. I looked up and the sky was clearing! This still was not a guarantee that anyone would be able to cross the river. Figuring it could take a few hours for the rivers to go down I started breakfast. Just as the large pot of arroz con leche (rice pudding) finished we got word that it was safe to cross and everyone was getting loaded into cars. So as to send the patients off with some breakfast; and to make sure we weren’t left with enough rice pudding for a week, we quick took the pot and plastic cups out to their car.
I sat at the table eating breakfast with the other 6 thinking, “Did the last 24 hours really happen?” We all had the same look of relief and need for a relaxing day. Despite the fact that we had all the teachers at The Finca and all the kids could make it in for class there was no reasonable way to hold classes. The sky was clearer, but off and on all day came spits of rain, then brief torrents, steady showers and hopeful breaks of sun. All that mattered though was that we had earned a very much needed rain day if for no other reason than to sit here and write this blog.



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